As women we have a stigma around if we are not in a relationship or married, something must be wrong with us. We are conditioned from an early age to look for the prince/princess who will save us from singleness. I think with this new generation of kids growing up we may see less and less of marriages and more alternative lifestyles. But still I feel there is this push to be in a relationship.Read More
What are the key mixtures for a successful relationship? Let me start with any relationship you are in can be successful for what you need to learn from them, unfortunately not all relationships are meant for the long haul. Luckily, we do not need to stay in a marriage or relationship that is unfulfilling, controlling, or abusive. We do have choices every day in how we attract, participate in, and maintain a relationship for better or for worse.Read More
A while back I was doing a yogi training to deepen my practice and was looking to cultivate some new friends at the studio I go to. In my mind I thought I needed to be a bigger personality and step out of my more introverted comfort zone and "pretend" to be an extrovert by being friendly and open. When I walked into the studio to begin the first of several classes in the training, there was a group of women all sitting in the corner, so I thought I would come over say HELLO and start a conversation. I proceeded over to them said my GRAND hello and got blank stares and really had to pull teeth to get them to talk. I walked away frustrated and feeling a little down. Later upon reflection I realized I wasn't being my true self, instead I created someone I am not. Was that being authentic?
The next class I came back and sat down by one of the women that I always see in class but never talked to. I decided to have a more engaging one on one conversation, which turned out to be a delight. I'm much better one on one then in large groups, so what was I thinking? Sometimes it takes an experience of what we don't want to bring us back to what we do and how to go about getting it.
This is where your Sun Sign comes in to illuminate your authentic self at the most basic level. The Sun represents our individuality, soul purpose, happiness, and the hero we are to become in this lifetime. I have writen down all 12 sun signs giving their positive reflections as well as hidden shadows. This alone can help you align back to who you are when you have gone astray.
Sun in Aries - Shines when they are number one! They are happiest when they are trailblazing something new and leading the way. They are dynamic, enterprising, and ambitious. Your authentic self shines brightest when you are being active, self-sufficient, and independent. Though dear Aries you will need to watch out for when you become too forceful and aggressive as well as thinking the only opinion that matters is yours.
Sun In Taurus - Shines when you are perceiving the world through your physical senses! You are happiest when you have stability, patience and practicality. You are steadfast, peaceful and security conscious. Your authentic self shines brightest when you are being artistic, affectionate, and nature loving. Though dear Taurus you will need to watch out for when you become too stubborn and set in your ways fearing any change to your security.
Sun in Gemini - Shines when you are articulate, entertaining and curious about all that life has to offer! You are happiest when they are learning something new that you can share with others. You are bright, clever, and witty. Your authentic self shines brightest when you are able to move quickly with flexibility and dexterity. Though dear Gemini you will need to watch out for having so many different ideas that never really go anywhere.
Sun in Cancer - Shines when you feel safe and comfortable and have emotional security! You are happiest when you are home with your family. You are intuitive, sensitive, and compassionate. Your authentic self shines brightest when you are being domestic, nurturing and sympathetic . Though dear Cancer you will need to watch out for when you become too sensitive taking everything personally.
Sun in Leo - Shines when you are recognized, appreciated, and honored for being you! You are happiest when in the spotlight ruling the roost. You are motivated to express your self with creativity and passion. Your authentic self shines brightest when you are being magnanimous, loving and adventurous. Though dear Leo you will need to watch out for when you take up all of the spotlight the lesson is to share some of it with others.
Sun in Virgo - Shines when you are perfecting and correcting! You are happiest when you are expressing and understanding things accurately. You are analytical, discriminating, and improving. Your authentic self shines brightest when you are being productive, of service to others, and clever. Though dear Virgo you will need to watch out for when you become too critical, perfectionistic, and nitpicking of others.
Sun in Libra - Shines when you are liked, popular, and feeling attractive! You are happiest when you are sociable, friendly, and fair. You are diplomatic, logical and have a talent for mediating. Your authentic self shines brightest when you are in harmonious relationships and creating balance. Though dear Libra you will need to watch out for when you compromise what you need and want for the sake of the relationship.
Sun in Scorpio - Shines when you are in control and self-sufficient! You are happiest when you are courageous, deep, and powerful. You are insightful, penetrating, and protective. Your authentic self shines brightest when you are being mysterious, passionate, and transforming. Though dear Scorpio you will need to watch out for when you become emotionally manipulative and possessive of the ones you love.
Sun in Sagittarius - Shines when you are respected for your opinions and listened to above all else! You are happiest when traveling and given a lot of freedom. You are honest, philosophical, and truth seeking. Your authentic self shines brightest when you are aligned with your higher ideals or beliefs. Though dear Sagittarius you will need to watch out for when you become too evangelistic and preachy not recognizing that others have opinions as well and they may differ from yours.
Sun in Capricorn - Shines when you are able to make things happen and show your leadership talents and strengths! You are happiest when working towards climbing the corporate latter to success. You are ambitious, practical, and responsible. Your authentic self shines brightest when you are being self-respecting, organized, and independent. Though dear Capricorn you will need to watch out for when you become overambitious and penny-pinching.
Sun in Aquarius - Shines when you are socially significant and yet unique! You are happiest when you are contributing to a social cause and pursuing the idea of personal freedom. You are visionary, humanistic, and progressive. Your authentic self shines brightest when you are sharing your work and vision for a better world. Though dear Aquarius you will need to watch out for when you become too rebellious for your own good which will create separation and isolation from others.
Sun in Pisces - Shines when you are respected for your sensitivity and idealism! You are happiest when you are free to dream, intuit, and be connected to all things. You are compassionate, loving, and healing. Your authentic self shines brightest when you are being romantic, self-sacrificing, and empathetic. Though dear Pisces you will need to watch out for when you escape your reality living in the fantasy.
This is giving you a glimpse of your authentic possibilities, for more in-depth interpretations please contact me and set up an appointment today!